Candidates’ wives always play an integral role in political, particularly presidential, campaigns. Whether it’s Cindy McCain’s soft hand in 2008 or Hillary Clinton standing by her man and promising a hands-on approach to being First Lady during the 1992 race, political wives are an essential component to any campaign. They prop up their ambitious husbands, always supportive and generally shilling for the man in their lives.
This election is no different: Ann Romney rehashed heartwarming family memories to help chip away husband Mitt’s icy facade; short-lived candidate Tim Pawlenty’s wife Mary appeared in a commercial explaining their faith; and Rick Perry brought his wife along during a CafeMom event earlier this week.
But what is different about this campaign is the seemingly oversized role non-wives are playing — women who have made headlines for their past dalliances or associations with a White House hopeful. Marianne Gingrich is but the latest: the former wife of House Speaker Newt Gingrich, Marianne will appear on ABC News’ “Nightline” tonight to regale shameful, embarrassing stories of a man to whom she was married for 18-years.
In the interview, the erstwhile Mrs. Gingrich will say her ex lacks the “moral character” to be commander-in-chief and that the family values crusader asked her to have an “open marriage” so that he could continue carrying on with his current wife, Callista. Two days later, he delivered a moralistic speech called “The Demise of American Culture.”
ABC News offers details of the marriage’s dissolution:
In her most provocative comments, the ex-Mrs. Gingrich said Newt sought an “open marriage” arrangement so he could have a mistress and a wife.
She said when Gingrich admitted to a six-year affair with a Congressional aide, he asked her if she would share him with the other woman, Callista, who is now married to Gingrich.
“And I just stared at him and he said, ‘Callista doesn’t care what I do,’” Marianne Gingrich told ABC News. “He wanted an open marriage and I refused.”
Marianne described her “shock” at Gingrich’s behavior, including how she says she learned he conducted his affair with Callista “in my bedroom in our apartment in Washington.”
“He always called me at night,” she recalled, “and always ended with ‘I love you.’ Well, she was listening.”
This was the period, of course, when Gingrich was enacting political revenge by pillorying President Clinton for his affair with Monica Lewinsky, perhaps the most famous non-wife in political history, though her name popped up during a presidency, rather than a campaign. (Predecessors Gennifer Flowers and Paula Jones, of course, played the non-wife role during the 1992 and 1996 elections, respectively.)
Marianne Gingrich is simply the latest non-wife in the 2012 campaign. Before her, the viewing public has seen a parade of non-wives from Herman Cain’s since-failed campaign. Karen Kraushaar was one of the first two women to accuse the candidate-turned-Colbert sideshow Cain of sexual harassment. Then we heard more details from Sharon Bialek, and a fifth accuser, Ginger White, stole the show by claiming a 13-year affair with Cain. He left the presidential race soon after.
Non-wives appear to be playing a larger role this election cycle than any other in recent memory. Critics will try to smear these women — Cain’s campaign tried to paint Bialek as a “troubled,” “opportunistic” hysterical stereotype and Gingrich has already called his ex-wive’s sit-down as “tawdry and inappropriate,” WaPo reports — but that should not diminish their role in the campaigns and their varied relationships with the candidates.
Regardless of what motivates these women to come forward — Marianne Gingrich says she agreed to an interview because she didn’t want to appear as a victim (Gingrich left her soon after she was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis) and to expose the candidate as a hypocrite and fraud. “How could he ask me for a divorce on Monday and within 48 hours give a speech on family values and talk about how people treat people?” — they’re flexing their muscle, showing politicians that their position does not mean they can treat people, in this case women, like disposable accessories.
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January 19, 2012 at 7:29 pm, LeesaB said:
Can you say “BITTER!” ? Can you “GET OVER IT!”? Another angry woman who should be over her marriage (it takes two, baby) but hasn’t gotten over her need for her 15 minutes. Please. We all do things we regret, but hopefully get a whole lot older and wiser. She needs to move on with her life and stay out of her EX-HUSBAND’s life.
January 19, 2012 at 8:03 pm, Probison said:
Wow, what a bitter and petty woman! She should be ashamed of herself. ABC should also be ashamed, but what else do we expect from the far left OBAMA ass-kissing media! Anything to distract Americans from the abysmal record of this clown!
January 19, 2012 at 9:13 pm, Kdlibny said:
Do not find her bitter. Newt is a hypocrite. End of story. How convenient for both
Of the Callista & Newt to find religion for the campaign. My goodness he says I am
Now even playing golf. What a shallow ….
January 20, 2012 at 1:05 am, carole smith said:
I will not vote for Gingrich. The morals or lack thereof of a President are very important to me and to many other Americans. It is really sad when people consider it an unimportant issue. If Newt Gingrich can betray the woman he is married to, then what underhanded, unethical things would he do in the White House? I guess Calista would be First Mistress.
January 20, 2012 at 1:10 am, carole smith said:
He married his high school teacher, cheated on her with Marianne, married Marianne, then cheated on her with Calista, then married Calista. He is a dishonest man, not fit for the White House. Nasty, unethical man.
January 20, 2012 at 1:14 am, carole smith said:
Also, while he was carrying on his affair, he was criticizing Clinton for his affair with Monica Lewinsky. I applaud this woman for coming forward, and wish his first wife would do the same.
January 20, 2012 at 5:48 pm, Msolomonz2003 said:
What I can’t stand the thought of is the awful result of Knut winning the election……Imagine a “first lady” who not only slept with a married man, but did so in his wife’s bed……..and then got religion!!!! Give me a break!!!
January 20, 2012 at 9:02 pm, MrsC0324 said:
I feel sorry for Mary Ann. Her interview showed her as a bitter wife that left her class at home and showed herself as a woman who has allowed her divorce to ruin her life and control her instead of her getting a life that she controls.
January 22, 2012 at 6:04 pm, Peaches said:
Thank you, Marianne! Your courage, honesty, and bravery are admirable. You give hope to all the women who endure these vicious, narcissistic men like Newt. You empower women to take back their rights and to refuse to vote for or put up with the degradation and violence, in some cases, that these men dish out.